Bikini body...

So, I've been spending a lot of time at the neighborhood pool. There seems to be a trend around here that ANYONE of the female persuasion can wear a bikini. I think I disagree. I used to, but have promised that without plastic surgery I will hand in my membership card to this club. Not everyone subscribes to this train of thought. It bugs me every time. I think for two reasons.
1.Eww. Yeah, I get it having stretch marks is a beautiful symbol of being a mother. I think this is crap and is only something husbands tell their wives to get laid. It's not pretty on me and I certainly don't think it is pretty on you stranger at the pool.
2. Maybe I wish I had their confidence. I've never been the "I don't care what anyone thinks" kind of girl. And, a small part of me respects the kahones it takes to do it.
So, I will not be wearing one, because I certainly don't want anyone blogging about me!